“It is better to be safe, than sorry.” ~ Your
Mother
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If you are an
American and a woman, then most likely you have been WARNED about women’s safety. Most American women have the rape
statistics ingrained in their brains. Most of us know that in the United States
1 out of 4 women have been raped or molested and to be
safe and cautious when in new environments. However, do we heed this advice when traveling abroad?
How many times have
you watched the news and saw a person traveling overseas on vacation featured
as MISSING? You would think that anyone going to a foreign country, women in particular
would take precautions and be very mindful of their environment. However, that
is not always the case.
Are you aware that 90% of sex trafficking involvess
women, or that 50,000 women are trafficked into the United States alone each
year?
Government and non-governmental
experts in the field estimate that out of the 700,000 to two million women and
children trafficked globally each year, 45,000 to 50,000 are trafficked to the
United States. Approximately 30,000 women and children are trafficked annually
from Southeast Asia, 10,000 from Latin America, 4,000 from the Newly
Independent States and Eastern Europe, and 1,000 from other regions. (Central Intelligence Agency briefing, Global
Trafficking in Women and Children: Assessing the Magnitude, April
1999.)
Many of you are Solo
Travelers, but it is always safer to travel in a group. However, I have
traveled in a small group and I felt like it would have been much
safer if I were alone. When traveling on my own I tend to have my guard up, but
it is much easier to be comfortable when you think you have the safety of a
group.
I recently went on
a trip where the person I was with was invited on a date, and because I was
with them, I felt obligated to go. It was at that time I realized how unsafe
some women could be. I have a photographic memory and pay a great deal of
attention to my surroundings, but I realized that some people just do not. I
witnessed a woman falling asleep in a car with a stranger and I was floored.
How do you know where they are taking you, and how do you trust someone you
don’t know with your life?
When traveling
overseas,
the best part of the experience is being spontaneous and adventurous, but that
does not mean being unsafe or ignorant. I am the type of person who lives by
intuition, and nine out of ten times, I am always correct. If I feel anything wrong I never second- guess
it-- I follow my feelings. I love meeting new and interesting people, but I do
not care to meet anyone who will potentially take my life. In most cases, you
are safer than not, but here are a few tips that you could use to keep yourself
safe while traveling:
1.
Always be aware of
your environment. Watch the locals and see how they respond.
2.
Blend into your
environment. When you look like everyone else it
is harder for people to single you out
3.
Have a plan. When
you know what to do in an emergency, then you spend less time thinking
about how to react. “If you stay ready, you don’t have to get ready.”
4.
Have some form of
communication (cell phone, paper and pen, etc.)
5.
Research the area
you are going to first and be aware of things that could occur. Make sure you
know the areas and circumstances that are unsafe for women or foreigners traveling
alone.
6.
Leave your plans or
trip itinerary with someone you trust or that you talk to frequently.
7.
Check trip advisory
boards to see about weather issues and possibly negative tourist attacks.
The top 10 countries listed for rape are:
(To see the complete list: click
here)
1.
France
2.
Germany
3.
Russia
4.
Sweden
5.
Argentina
6.
Belgium
7.
Philippines
8.
Spain
9.
Chile
10.
Lesotho
Again, I am not
trying to pump fear into anyone. I really want more women to travel and see the
world from a place of love, but I believe that the more you know the more
valuable your experiences are. It is always better to be safe than it is to be
sorry. Therefore, I hope that you find these tips helpful and informative.
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If you are interested in getting some support before you travel, please sign up for my Free 30 minute exploration call. As an Expat and Transitional, I would love to help support you in traveling safely. You can sign up now here.
Traveling alone is one of my favorite things. It's freeing, stress free, and exceptionally rewarding. However, there are some risks with traveling alone and one must always be aware of their surroundings. I do not ever go out at night alone when traveling or become intoxicated, ride with strangers, or go into seedy areas.
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